Sunday, November 4, 2012

Awesome to the Max (Part 4 of 4)



Awesome to the Max: My Top 25 Movies That Made Growing Up in the 1980s Exceptional – Part 4 of 4

5. Who Framed Roger Rabbit: Where to begin how much I love this movie? It was a movie where real life actors seamlessly interacted with cartoons. Not just any cartoons, all of the Disney and Warner Brothers characters! What kid didn’t want to see this?! But on a more personal love, this was probably my introduction to mystery movies and I quickly discovered that I LOVED them!

 
As the title suggests, a toon named Roger Rabbit is framed for the murder of beloved toon creator Marvin Acme (yes, that Acme, the one who gives Wile E. Coyote all those defective contraptions) and it’s up to toon hating private investigator Eddie Valient to find out who the real murder is. Exciting, funny, thrilling and consistently brilliant, Who Framed Roger Rabbit is a movie that kids enjoy, but their parents get a whole other appreciation for. It was one of those movies like Big or Dick Tracy that skirted the risqué line of whether it was a movie for kids or a movie for their parents. Honestly, it’s both, but I definitely felt like I was watching a more mature movie whenever I watched it. Why? Well, for starters, Judge Doom is one of the scariest family movie villains ever, if not the scariest. 


He created that horrifying weapon for killing toons called Dip, remember that poor squeaky shoe? Simply cold hearted, but then came the ending and if you were young, you definitely covered your eyes out of terror. I left the theater and had to come back. But the other thing that made this movie feel like it was more mature was the VERY mature wife of Roger Rabbit.

 
Yes, my friends, I speak of the infamous Jessica Rabbit, the character that made every adolescent boy in the audience sit up and stare at the screen like a meercat. As I got older, I found that the movie’s story contained multiple nods to Chinatown, which is considered one of the greatest movie mysteries of all time. (Jessica Rabbit’s car is the same make and model of Faye Dunaway’s, the movie’s main mystery centers around a greedy form of land development, the use of extra-marital blackmail, etc.) Who Framed Roger Rabbit is not just a brilliant family movie, it is flat out a brilliant movie. This is a pure marvel of filmmaking on every level.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OFCIaMyMORg

You know, I always wondered if the fact the two women who introduced me into the world of noticing the opposite sex were Madonna and Jessica Rabbit had any effect on me growing up…I’m not gonna delve too much into that, but something I wondered when the thought crossed my mind.

4. Ghostbusters: Yes, my Halloween costume was a huge clue as to how high up on the list this movie was, but can you honestly tell me if you weren’t making a list of your favorite movies as a child, Ghostbusters wouldn’t rank that high up there? We all know the story: a group of scientists develop a way to capture and incarcerate ghosts and use this technology to create a business that deals with the “professional paranormal investigations and eliminations”. As they get started, they realize that an ancient spirit is looking to re-enter the earth and bring about the end of the world. Who ya gonna call?

 
That’s right, Dr. Peter Venkmen, Dr. Ray Stanz, Dr. Egon Spengler and Winston Zeddmore, the Ghostbusters. Now, I will admit, I was probably introduced to this at an age where I couldn’t appreciate it as much as I should have. When I first saw Ghostbusters, I was four years old and let me tell you, this was the first time that I could recall vivid nightmares, so technically, this was the first scary movie I ever saw. But I loved it. I loved the scientific coolness of the proton packs and the gadgets and I loved how they were fighting the other side. As I got older, I began to realize it was a comedy and I really began to appreciate the humor. Then I got to be a teenager and I REALLY appreciated the humor. I finally got all of the jokes and let me tell you, getting older with Ghostbusters is a wonderful thing. Ghostbusters grows with you as you mature and begin to understand the world around you. And let’s be honest, Peter Venkman is probably one of the best movie characters of all time. This is the guy you want with you while you’re fighting the Armageddon because he will have the best thing to say no matter what the situation is. Personally, my favorite was always Egon.

 
He was the one who was the most scientific and professional. Sure, his one liners may not have been as memorable as Venkman’s, but his presence was one that you just knew he had an equation for every situation, from this universe or the other. The dialog is endlessly creative, the visual effects are some of the best of time and the performances are just spot on. I’m not gonna go into the second one. I really wanted to like it as a child, but it just wasn’t as much fun to enjoy as much as the original, which is probably the best way that you can describe the first part: original.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cyRqR56aCKc 

3. The Indiana Jones trilogy: All three of these movies were part of our childhood, whether you watched them or not. Action movies were forever changed with the introduction of Indiana Jones to the movie world. The first part, Raiders of the Lost Ark, is probably still the best because of how fresh and relentless of an action movie it is, all without losing its sense of humor as to how implausible it is. Archeologist Indiana Jones is called on by the US Government to find the Ark of the Covenant before the Nazis do and use it as an occult weapon. And the rest is history.

 
What kid didn’t love this movie growing up, you had action, you had cool settings, you had  When Raiders of the Lost Ark debuted, everything about action adventure movies changed, the use of stunt work, the scale to which action sequences were choreographed, the breakneck pacing of the story, this became the new standard for action. And how cool of a hero was Indiana Jones? He wasn’t a superhuman that just shook off the abuse he went through, he had every bruise, cut and gunshot from when the adventure started. And much Kudos to Harrison Ford for giving Indy those moments where he takes brief reflections on what he just did. This movie does not let up. When the action and story get going, it doesn’t stop to reflect, it exists in the chase and you can’t help but get caught up in the chase.

 
It’s exciting, it’s thrilling, it’s everything that every other summer movie ever since wants to be but will always fall short of. And as I grew up, I found out that Spielberg approached Raiders as homage to one of his favorite movies: Lawrence of Arabia. If you’ve seen that, you can definitely see the inspiration in Raiders.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0ZOcoxjeUYo 

Continuing with his trend of inspiration from previous movies, Spielberg and Lucas used Gunga Din for the inspiration for their next outing, Indiana Jones and the Temple of Doom. In this sequel, which is actually a prequel, Dr. Jones goes in search of three ancient stones along with a village’s children. Sound exciting enough, that’s just what everyone else thought, but what we would see in the theater would be one of the darkest experiences we can probably recall from our youths.

 
Indiana Jones and his companions run afoul of the cult that captured the children and they try to make Indiana Jones possessed by drinking a blood concoction. Oh, and there’s a firepit sacrifice and someone has their heart torn from their chest a la Kano in Mortal Kombat. Of course, we should have expected this after seeing the end of Raiders and seeing what happens when the Ark of the Covenant was opened. Now, this is the one that everyone is at opposite ends of the spectrum on and there are parts to it that I can understand. For instance, the entire country of India refuses to show it because they feel it is offensive in that it portrays them as sacrificing barbarians that worship an evil god. Yeah, I can kind of see that, but then again, you can apply that argument to a lot of other nationalities in other movies. But then there are Indy’s travelling companions, Willie and Short Round, who only exist to get in trouble or get captured. Sure, Short Round helps a couple of times, but then you have Willie, who just screams and complains about how she’s not living in the lap of luxury consistently.

 
Yeah, that’s the character you want in an Indiana Jones movie. But for the most part, the action is intense, there are some pretty funny moments and the visuals are pretty unforgettable and it’s actually a very clever nod to Gunga Din, which is a reference that is pretty lost on a good portion of the viewers. We mostly remember it as that movie, alongside Gremlins, that was the cause of our parents demanding a PG-13 rating.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HOwWfns4qqw 

And that rating was bestowed upon the third part in the series, Indiana Jones and the Last Crusade. Now, while people are pretty divided about whether they liked Temple of Doom or not, other people are divided as to whether Raiders is the better film or Last Crusade is. That’s how friggin’ good this entry was, people began saying it was as good as the first part. Our globetrotting, intrepid archeologist hero, Indiana Jones, is literally looking for the Holy Grail, again, racing against the Nazis to make sure they don’t get it.

 
But in order to find it faster, Indy needs the help of his father, Henry Jones. Now, who could portray the man that fathered Indiana Jones? Why, none other than the original man of action, James Bond himself, Sean Connery. The banter between father and son is the most sweetly satisfying exchange of dialog between two beloved characters. The action is top notch, the settings are fantastic and, again, seeing Indiana Jones reunited with his father on the big screen is just one of the most satisfying moments in a movie.


That’s how you know you’ve made a truly timeless film, when two characters can simply talk to each other and it’s fondly remembered. Indiana Jones is timeless.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A7TaY8HWYd8 

I won’t talk about Crystal Skull. I won’t. There are three Indiana Jones movies and they forever exist in the memories of pleasant nostalgia. There was no fourth part. It’s a trilogy.

2. ET – The Extra Terrestrial: Okay, right off the bat, I’ll admit it: I cried. I didn’t just cry, I bawled. Probably more than I ever have in any other movie. Everyone I watched it with bawled. I still bawl for probably the last half an hour of this movie. In fact, this movie has one of the most indelible theater experiences I can ever remember. I first saw this movie on a military base in Twentynine Palms California, which was eerily reminiscent of the suburb setting of this movie.

 
An alien gets accidentally left behind by his crew and is taken in by a boy named Elliott. The two form a mutual bond as Elliott tries to explain his world to the alien, who he names ET, and eventually tries to help him get back home. This is probably the best movie about kids that looks at the world at their level and through their eyes. It never panders to them and it never talks down to them, it simply embraces the youthful purity they have and uses that to propel the story. The emotionality of ET is so genuine and pure that it goes beyond being a movie for kids, beyond being a movie about friends and beyond being a movie for adults, it becomes a movie that actually reopens the door of being a child to adults. The beauty that this movie captures is truly the embodiment of what movie magic is. Now, about that ending… If you haven’t seen it, I’ll try not to spoil it, but if you have seen it, you know what I’m talking about.


I’ll just say this, if I agree to watch this movie around you, I am totally and completely comfortable around you because I will not watch this movie around just anybody. It opens up some really deep emotional responses from me. What power does this ending have that I won’t see it around just anybody? Well, I’ll just say this, remember how I said seeing this movie had one of the most indelible theater experiences and how I saw it on a military base? I remember every soldier sitting around me doing everything they could to try and keep from being seen crying. This movie made an entire theater of grown Marines cry. From someone who has grown up around Marines his whole life, THAT is a huge emotional impact. ET – The Extra Terrestrial has a special place in my heart and will forever have that place in my heart that goes beyond a mere movie and part of my emotional psyche.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cJf6XMfw2Ng

1. The Star Wars trilogy: What, would you expect anything else? I can’t begin to count the days of my childhood that wasn’t spent watching these movies, trying to collect the action figures and vehicles, getting together with my friends who had the action figures I wanted and having our own Star Wars battles, using the wooden posts as lightsabers and standing on top of the retaining wall on the side of my house and pretending it was the bridge over a bottomless chasm. The Star Wars movies for many people my age was the beginning of our imaginations.

 
Far away planets, cool technology, lasers, space ships, mystic knights with ethereal powers, this was a galaxy that we wished wasn’t so far away. It was also the movie for many that knew they wanted to go into filmmaking, myself included. I’ll never forget being four years old, seeing these movies on HBO a couple times already, but then seeing a special right afterwards about how they made these movies. I saw the actors behind the puppets, I saw the cameras being moved into place, I saw the actors practicing their lines and I saw the special effects being set up. It was like seeing a world of magic unspooling before your eyes, almost inviting you to come play in this world.

It all began in 1977 (way before I was born) with Star Wars, the story of a princess who is taken captive, but not before sending battle plans with two droids to a remote planet. The droids are picked up by a farmboy, who, with the help of a Jedi Knight and a rogue pilot, journey to recover the princess and deliver the battle plans. If you need to know who their names are, just stop reading right now and start watching them (but start with the 1977 Star Wars and go Episode IV, V & VI, as they were meant to be seen).


Like I said before, this movie opened up an entire universe of aliens, far away planets, cool space ships, lasers, nothing like this had ever been seen in a movie before and it was completely welcome. Not only that, but it brought back a sense of heroism to movies in the classic Arthurian sense, something that had been well ignored in the 1970s because of the cynicism over the Vietnam War and the Nixon era. This movie gave people something to root for and imagine themselves in and frankly, what’s wrong with a little escapism after being so entrenched with the real world and how bitter it can be. We need to know there’s a world out there where the good guys win and evil gets punished.

 
That’s what I also connected with, the sense of heroism that this movie centered around.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9gvqpFbRKtQ 

The sequel came out three years later (again, still before I was born), The Empire Strikes Back, and continued the battle between the Rebels and the Empire. Also, the characters each went on their own individual journey of discovery, Luke travelled to Dagobah to be trained as a Jedi by Yoda while Han and Leia escaped the Empire and discovered they had feelings for each other.

 
This movie is actually pretty dark when you look at it. The Rebels lose their battle in the beginning of the film and the plot twists it takes from there are pretty dark for a movie that was remembered for being the voice of optimism amidst the bitter cynicism of the 1970s. But the twists exist to help the characters’ journey of maturity reach their peak as well as raise the stakes for the sequel. As I got older, I began to appreciate this movie on an incredibly mature level and soon realized, this was my favorite movie. The Imperial Walker battle scene is impressively exciting, the love story between Han and Leia is surprisingly very mature and Luke’s training on Dagobah is deeply rooted in philosophy and self-examination. Not only that, but Cloud City is my favorite setting.

 
I loved seeing the polished look of a futuristic city and how the towering buildings seemed to be all around. So, yes, I will still stand behind The Empire Strikes Back as being my favorite movie of all time. As for the sequel it sets up…

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vxLR_27ASpc 

Yes, I was finally born by the time that the sequel, Return of the Jedi, was released. By this time, anticipation for this movie was at a fever pitch! The final battle between good versus evil would take place, Rebels versus the Empire, Luke versus…(see plot twist in Empire) and for the first time, we get to see Darth Vader’s master, the Emperor. But first, we settle Han Solo’s debts with Jabba the Hut in a very exciting, if needlessly elaborate, opening scenes.

 
Then from there, we regather where we are with the battle and prepare for the end. And what and ending. The entire last half of the movie is a gigantic battle, both on Endor, in space and a lightsaber duel in the Death Star. This is the exciting ending that we were waiting for, even if the movie does reveal another plot twist that kind of hints that George Lucas was winging the last two stories. These movies are timeless adventures that many people my age as well as kids today cherish and why not? They’re stories of heroism amidst dark times, they’re exciting, they’re surprisingly philosophical and they’re all kinds of fun.

 
They aren’t as serious and mature as a Merchant Ivory film would be, but they aren’t supposed to be. They’re just meant to have fun with and give yourself over to a universe of wonder and awe.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LOy8JRogT-c 

What it was about the Star Wars trilogy that had such an impact on me, beyond simply wanting to make movies, was that these were worlds that never changed. When so much in my life was being uprooted and changing, I could always count on Tatooine to be a desert planet, Hoth to be an ice and snow planet, Dagobah to be a swamp planet and Endor to be a forest moon. No matter what TV I watched them on, they were as familiar to me as any home I lived in.

 
I then realized the power of creating a fantasy world and how it could bring stability and familiarity to the people watching it, even if it was as farfetched as planets having the same eco-system on both sides of the hemisphere. These movies inspire me to this day and I fondly remember all those times spent sitting on my living room couch or wherever I was as a kid watching these movies and being transported to a galaxy far, far away from my own world and welcoming every minute of it.

So, okay, looking back, I see that I’ve had a lot of movies that either unintentionally scared the ever loving crap out of me or broke me down into a quivering pile of tears. And you know what? I’m completely fine with it. In fact, for us kids that did live in our bubbles, we had these movies to give us a sense of second hand trauma. They made me not as scared of the monsters hiding in my room and made me more emotionally aware of the world around me. I hope movies like that still exist for the kids of this generation. But, with movies like The Iron Giant, Pixar’s library, The Lord of the Rings movies, Hugo and all the cool superhero movies out there, it does seem like there are plenty out there to choose from. Hopefully, there’s that one starry eyed kid out there like me that gets to see them and gets to be taken away for a short time to live in that fantasy playground that they create.

But what of those movies you had to sneak away from your parents? The ones that you would see and always work to not let it slip that you saw this awesome movies until you were around your friends to prove how mature you were for having seen them? Well, that will be for another list, the top ten movies we loved as kids that we were not allowed to watch (or shouldn’t have been allowed to). If I grew up watching movies that set up for sequels, why shouldn’t I leave this list off with setting up one myself?

Awesome to the Max (Part 3 of 4)



Awesome to the Max: My Top 25 Movies That Made Growing Up in the 1980s Exceptional – Part 3 of 4

10. The Muppet movies (The Muppet Movie, The Great Muppet Caper, The Muppets Take Manhattan): The Muppets had, still have and will forever have the key to my inner child. I grew up with The Muppet Show and I loved watching the crazy, off the wall antics of these weirdos that did everything they could to put on a show. Did I know what vaudeville and critics were at the age of five? Hell no, but I loved what I saw. Then they began making movies and let me tell you, the three movies made during the Jim Henson era were some of the best movies you could take kids to at that time.

The first, The Muppet Movie, did get released in 1979 (a good couple of years before I was born), but would find a new life on a wonderful device known as home video rental. Well, I saw this “origin story” of how the Muppets all got together and travelled to Hollywood to pursue their dream of fame and fortune. 

 
As a kid, I loved this movie but as I got older, the movie began to resonate more and more with my inner drive to be recognized for my talents and achieve greatness through them. Amidst the wonderful madcap adventures of the Muppets and a crazy guy who wants Kermit to be his spokesperson for a Fast Food Chain of Frog Legs (ew), this movie holds up surprisingly well over time. And The Rainbow Connection remains one of the greatest songs in movie history.


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rE6i23QHSqk

The Great Muppet Caper was a separate story that added Muppets into a crazy European jewel heist scenario. While it’s not as memorable as the movie that it followed or the movie that follows it, it’s still a pretty funny movie that has some genuinely inspired moments of comic hilarity and some incredible music moments. 

 
The sight gags are pretty clever and I still think Happiness Hotel is probably one of the best musical numbers of the 1980s (for as few and far between as there were).

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=09tVBhCvv0M 

If The Great Muppet Caper was a separate adventure, then The Muppets Take Manhattan was a return to their “Hey, gang, let’s put on a show” roots. Fresh after graduating from college, Kermit and his friends go to New York City to get their play put on Broadway. 


But life has a crushing reality that weighs in on them, which results in the Muppets deciding to go their own separate ways and being expressed in one of the saddest childhood songs, “Saying Goodbye”. 


I cried then and I still cry now because it is such a heart-wrenching expression of trying to put a good spin on the death of a dream as well as an all too familiar display of what it feels like to part ways with a loved one. But they wouldn’t be the Muppets without Kermit never giving up on that dream to put on a show and the hilarious hijinks continue. 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dFNwA4gI510

And for a good cry: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=penzsVANV0k

They’re all perfect family movies, witty, clever, heartfelt and inspirational. Not only that, but looking back on them, they have some of the greatest musical moments in a movie. They’re so good that as you grow older, they are both keys to your childhood while maintaining their level of witty humor that can be enjoyed no matter what age you are.

9. Dick Tracy: I LOVE a good mystery and the only thing I love better than a good mystery is a good noir mystery and the only thing I love better than a good noir mystery is a good noir mystery that has a fantastic setting. Enter Dick Tracy, which brought to the big screen a wonderful capture of both the brilliantly bright primary color look of the comic books as well as the shadowy look of a classic noir film. 

 
Warren Beatty plays Dick Tracy (as well as wrote and directed this movie) who takes on the seedy crime underworld of crime while trying to balance a love life. I’ve always said that I can get lost in a movie that has a fantastic setting and what a setting this movie had! This is one of my favorite set design jobs in movie history. This movie was bright, exciting, enthralling and smart. While a little risqué for the younger crowd (thank Madonna’s character for that), it still has enough style and charm to enrapture me at a young age. 


It was like watching a comic book come to vivid life on screen and I remember sitting there in the theater, enthralled with every punch, Tommy Gun shootout and every character in their brilliant make-up job. Seriously, look at the make-up work on Pruneface, Flattop, Babyface, The Brow, it’s simply amazing.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dAHj3IsSuT0 

8. The Goonies: If you didn’t see The Goonies as a kid, then you missed out on what is arguably the greatest kids’ ensemble adventure movie. This is the one that started the entire genre of “group of kids go out and have an adventure” stories that followed. A group of New England children are in danger of losing their houses to a rich socialite and are about to part ways when they discover a map that leads to pirate’s treasure. 

 
As they start their journey, there is a mafia family (The Fratellis!!) who are chasing after them to beat them to the treasure. Along the way, they have to avoid all of the Rube Goldberg-esque traps that have been set by the pirate, One Eyed Willie (we didn’t get it as a child, so shut up!) Now, if you apply simple logic to this movie, it does fall apart, such as if the pirates set traps to get out, why were they still trapped, how can the traps still work after nearly four hundred years, blah blah blah. To you, I say, shut up again and enjoy the ride! You’ll miss out on the wonderful gems this movie does have, and I don’t mean the treasure. The characters are fun and energetic, the adventures are thrilling and the cast all deliver indelible performances. Think of who went on from this movie, too, Sean Astin went on to Lord of the Rings fame, Joe Pantoliano went on to have a fantastic career and Josh Brolin became one of this decade’s most respected actors. And the villain, Mama Fratelli! 

 
Who could forget Anne Ramsey as Mama Fratelli, the abusive mafia mother of two bickering brothers and their deformed brother Sloth? And Sloth is just one of the coolest characters, especially how he befriends the token fat kid, not so affectionately referred to as Chunk. Sloth loves Chunk! Honestly, who doesn’t want to find treasure and that’s what makes this movie so much fun to watch. It’s a story that transcends age and is one that defined the childhood of many kids from the 1980s. Admit it, you wanted to have one of your own Goonies adventures, too, didn’t you? 

 
I remember making a treasure map myself and pretending there was buried treasure out there. Come to think of it, I think some of my mom’s jewelry might still be buried in my back yard in California. Love you, mom, thank you for not killing me as I grew up!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pWgc8Ute2tU 

7. Back to the Future: Did you ever wonder when you were a teenager what your parents were like at your age and if they did the crazy things that you did? That’s the notion behind this brilliant time travel movie that sends intrepid time traveler Marty McFly (played indelibly by Michael J. Fox) thirty years into the past where he crosses paths with his parents to see what kind of people they were. 

 
And his mom develops a crush on him in what is probably one of the most Freudianly hilarious story twists ever. He seeks help from the younger version of his friend, the eccentric inventor Doctor Emmett Brown, played with amazing gusto by Christopher Lloyd. Along the way, the son becomes a sort of mentor to his father, who is dealing with being bullied by the larger kid, Biff Tannen, who is arguably the best movie bully of all time. So when the final confrontation with the bully comes, it is one of the most satisfying moments ever! This is one of the most perfect movies ever made. Everything hits on the right level, story writing, dialog, direction, action, humor, performances and special effects. Nothing feels overwhelming, but at the same time, you never feel cheated. Back to the Future is so amazingly crafted that it will forever stand the test of time. Not to mention, when I went back to watch it again, I marveled at how ingenious the final action piece plays out, where timing is literally everything. 

 
While the second one and the third one were pretty good movies, they lacked the freshness and the originality that the first one had. Not to harp on a bad pun, but this movie literally is like watching lightning get caught in a bottle, it is simply perfect filmmaking that I think you’ll have a hard time finding a person who says they didn’t like Back to the Future.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=geYqE-f7ojY 

6. Big: Ever wish you were a little bit taller as a kid or at least a couple years older? That’s the premise behind Big, where Josh Baskin’s simple wish gets misinterpreted and he goes from being twelve to thirty five overnight. While he tries to find the wishing machine again, he begins a life for himself in New York City. However, he still perceives the world around him the way that a twelve year old would and this youthful enthusiasm is either resented by his cynical peers or embraced by those who cherish or envy his youthful vigor. 

 
Josh simply wants to live his life much like a boy of twelve would, simply trying to make his way and learn who he is. This movie can’t be reflected on without bringing up how brilliantly Tom Hanks portrayed the “child as an adult” persona. Sure, there were half a dozen movies like this out at the time (18 Again, Dream a Little Dream and Like Father, Like Son to name a few of the others), but it’s the embracing of youth and the performance of Tom Hanks that I think made this as memorable as it was. The mannerisms Hanks displays are much like a young teen’s, but it’s also in his eyes that he has that sensible innocence in them. 

 
I think I connected with this so much as a kid because it reminded me so much to enjoy the time I have as a child. But I think I also connected with the love story, too, and how his youthfulness helped a woman branch out of her cynicism into a woman that embraced the life she would just let pass by. That’s also probably why the ending hits such an emotional chord with me. As I grew up, I had to say goodbye to a lot of friends that I was never able to reconnect with to this day and do this on a very consistent basis. Try to imagine saying goodbye to your best friends four times in your life before you’re eleven. So when I have to see two characters that I’ve come to love have to say goodbye in some way, it breaks my heart on a level that I think goes deeper than it does for most. Plus, when the character is a child, it hits that much closer to home for me. Plus, the impact of Howard Shore’s music for the entire third act so poignantly captures the emotion of the scene that it still haunts me to this day. 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lCmyX6CYhI0 

When I was about fifteen or sixteen, I came to the realization that when you’re young, you can’t wait until you’re ten. When you’re ten, you can’t wait until you’re a thirteen. When you’re thirteen, you can’t wait until you get to sixteen. When you’re sixteen, you can’t wait until you were eighteen. When you’re eighteen, you can’t wait until you’re twenty one. When you’re twenty one, you are ready to start your life. But once you turn thirty, you look back on your life and wonder where it went. Some people spend so much time waiting to be a certain age that they don’t stop to enjoy the beauty of the youth they had, which you never appreciate until you’re older and can’t go back. Perhaps that’s one of the reasons I was so eager to put this list together, to reflect on the beauty of what I had growing up in the medium that I adored so much. So if you’re reading this and you’re going on the same nostalgic journey I am, enjoy the age you are at because you only get to have it once in your life because we don’t have Zoltar machines.